原出处:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mark-manson/the-most-important-question_b_4269161
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※The Most Important Question You Can Ask Yourself Today：
: Everybody wants what feels good. Everyone wants to live a care-free, happy
: and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing sex and relationships, to
: look perfect and make money and be popular and well-respected and admired and
: a total baller to the point that people part like the Red Sea when you walk
: into the room.
: Everybody wants that

3.攻陷 XD卸下对方心防过程中的心情起伏 or 心情躁动 or 患得患失it's easy to want that → 用想的都很简单？how our lives end up → 我们如何成就人生（说结束好恐怖今天你能自问最重要的问题→"你今天最该问自己的问题"较顺

It's easy to want that = {To want that, Wanting that}is easy. 想要，很容易。（重点在 easy，所以放句尾的好，注意原文排版easy还加斜体强调。） weathering rejections是被动的，对方不要你，你只好认命，只有承受、挨打的份，意思如 surviving rejections，能活命、挨过就好，你是没什么能耐去攻陷对方的 :)