My mom has been lost sleep for 9 month, because my father had an affair with a
Buddhist female fellow.
That female fellow accused my mom and I being “horrible ”for I located my fa
ther so They couldn’t meet.
The reason why they had chance to get closer and be together is because the ma
ster asked them two to send out brochure without people else.
I don’t know what the master thought , a man with a family and a divorced wom
an at equal age , shouldn’t the master be more careful?
Or the master has been out of the mundane life for too long forgot how ordina
ry human being are like...
Now the follower from temple‘s other vihara invited my father to their gathe
ring, even said under this circumstances my mom should go there too.
My mom is very sensitive now, everything linking with that temple makes her in
a bad mood.
My mom thinks my father should not have any evolvement with that temple,
but those disciples think go to that temple‘s gathering is the most sacred th
ing, can get blessing rewards and go to the heaven affte death,so regards o
f any reasons , my father should go and join them...
I think they too obsessed to understand what the real life is like...
Life is not all about religion, religion is not the whole thing in life...
Being too obsessed can be very dangerous…
I believe in Buddhism but I don’t think too obsessed is good…
What should I do?
My mom wanted my father convert to other temple but he resisted...
That temple is his psychological support and some what family like...
Thnk you for reading such a long article…