My father had or is having an affair with a woman.
he knew that woman at a religious community.
When watching buddhism channel, if the topic is about 放下
he said my mother should do that.
Does my father twist the meaning about 放下
what does 放下 really mean?

可以用中文吗？

It means "put sth behind you"or "Forget it"

But my father is the last person who qualified to say this

yeah,but 放下 is really good for your mom

I know this is good for her. But my biggest question is： do people have the right to tell people to do this?Becuase I study Buddhism so I can be condescending ?

It's "right words from wrong person"

Why Buddhists become cold blooded

you mean your father or....?

Many BuddhistsMy father asked my mother to talk to the master , and the master would tell my mother to 放下 . She suffered becuase she didn’t go to the Buddhist assembly and saysits her karma.He and that woman are Buddhists so they are blessed.

It's complex,and I can't stay too late.AM1:00 now

That’s My father’s goal to ask my mother to talk to the masterGood night

maybe tomorrow,someone will answer you.It's sorry,I have to go.Good night.

Good nightMy father lost his temper because we don’t let him goto the Buddhist assembly . that woman would go there..

Then just go. Buddha did not teach “let go” that way.What he taught is: there are right things to do and badthings to do. You can choose with your free will, but karma guarantees that whatever you choose, the consequences always come after.