''Not to'' is better than ''to not''.
※ 引述《milk0115 (愤怒是创业的原动力！！)》之铭言：
: 今天上课的时候遇到一题句子重组如下：
: of / him / tell / kind / to / my / embarrassing / not / anyone / story / .
: It was _____________________________________.
: 我觉得答案是：
: It was kind of him to not tell anyone my embarrassing story.
: 同事觉得是：
: It was kind of him not to tell anyone my embarrassing story.
: 另一个同事觉得两者皆可。
: 我还是觉得我是对的。用第二种感觉该写成 It was kind of him not telling anyone
: my embarrassing story.
: 哪位前辈可以告诉我假如不是两者皆可，哪个答案是对的？为什么？谢谢！