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zhibb (ZHI)
2021-12-14 01:33:37※ 引述《seedboxs (自由)》之铭言:
: 如题,最近在看电视的时候,发现不少人在对话时,其实会一直用名字来称呼自己。
: 在很多少女漫画或是影剧作品中,常常会有些角色会一直用第三人称的方式,
: 来替代第一人称的“我”来使用。
: 例如:“梨香不喜欢这样”“宽一觉得难受”“日向也赌武道赢”类似这样子
: 用自己的名字称呼本身。
: https://i.imgur.com/NFcD9Nb.jpg
: 曾经有看过一篇文章,分析为什么会一直用第三人称的方式来称谓自己,
: 多少有些心理因素,有专业人士有相关例子经验或是文献吗?
: 谢谢大家。
密西根大学(University of Michigan)的伊森‧克罗斯(Ethan Kross)教授
专门研究情绪调节,他的研究有提过相关概念,以下分享几篇文献,并节录其摘要。
内文中将不以第一人称而用自己名字等来自称的情况,称作 distanced self-talk。
using one's own name and other non-first person pronouns to refer to the self
有翻作抽离式自我对话、有距离的自我对话,或称心理距离法。
(1)
篇名:抽离式自我对话改变人们如何概念化自我
Distanced self-talk changes how people conceptualize the self
出处:Journal of Experimental Social Psychology 88, 103969 (2020/2)
描述:抽离式自我对话会促进自我控制和明智的推理。
Converging evidence indicates that distanced self-talk
promotes self-control and wise reasoning.
(2)
篇名:抽离式自我对话是否有助于在情绪激烈的经验中进行情绪调节
Does Distanced Self-Talk Facilitate Emotion Regulation Across
a Range of Emotionally Intense Experiences?
出处:Clinical Psychological Science 9 (1), 68-78 (2020/10)
描述:语言的细微变化会促进情绪调节。
Research indicates that a subtle shift in language
promotes emotion regulation.
当人们反思情绪强度不同的负面经历时,抽离式自我对话会降低情绪反应。
Distanced as opposed to immersed self-talk reduced emotional
reactivity when people reflected on negative experiences
that varied in their emotional intensity.
(3)
篇名:抽离式自我对话增强了对吃得更健康的目标追求
Distanced self-talk enhances goal pursuit to eat healthier
出处:Clinical Psychological Science 8 (2), 366-373 (2020/3)
描述:尝试选择更健康的食物通常会失败,特别是对于积极尝试节食的人。
Attempts to make healthier food choices often fail,
particularly for people who are actively trying to diet.
抽离式自我对话提供了一种相对轻松的自我控制工具,可增强对目标的追求。
Distanced self-talk provides a relatively effortless self-control tool
that enhances goal pursuit.
抽离式自我对话可能构成一种自我控制策略,鼓励更健康的饮食。
These findings suggest that distanced self-talk may constitute
a self-control strategy that encourages healthier eating.
小结:用自己的名字、绰号来自称,会影响人们对自我的认知,
在卸下主观的我,以客观的心理距离来检视,
能把负面情绪中的危机与威胁,转化成对自己的期许与挑战,
而且还有助于减肥(???
补充:The News Lens 今年分享过他的书─《强大内心的自我对话习惯》
https://www.thenewslens.com/article/152171