在华人社会小孩会被夸奖 好乖好听话。 在北美社会很少把 you're such a good kid! you "always listen toyour parents!!" 当作赞美词,。。。 华人社会娶老婆可能会说因为女生很乖很听话会做家事 北美社会如果你说I married my wife becasue she's a good woman! She does all the housework and always listen to me人家会觉得你是在开什么玩笑,有时候觉得华人社会很压抑,大家都过得很辛苦