你现在跟一个家人或是和你同样亲近的朋友所面临到的问题可能会耗尽你的能量且使你的
心情变差。这或许会让你产生绝望的想法，阿牛。当你尽最大努力让某事成功而它最终却
没有时，这可能会使你相当泄气。你无法控制另一个人，所以如果他们没有为这个过程付
出与你相同的努力时，你也无能为力。但是当你意识到这点时，你会觉得相当自由且满足
。当你这么做时，你或许会发现对方回心转意了。
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A problem you are facing now with a family member or with someone you are equa
lly close to may be draining your energy and souring your mood. This may cause
you to feel hopeless, Taurus. When you do your best to make something work, i
t can be demoralizing when it ultimately doesn't. You can't control another pe
rson, and so if they aren't giving as much effort to the process, there is not
much you can do. But there is a great deal of freedom and satisfaction in rea
lizing that. And when you do, you may find that the other party will come arou
nd.
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sour mood 心情不好
demoralize 令人泄气、士气低落的