你正面临的困境可能在某种程度上是自己造成的。这个问题或许与你拒绝从真实的角度思
考问题有关，因为这件事并不是你想要或是你所期望的。但如果你更客观地看待它，或许
思考到其他人能有比你更清晰的观点，那么你会发现这件事并不是什么大问题，甚至可能
不是需要你去解决的问题，阿牛。退后一步，重新审视吧。
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A dilemma you are facing may be the product of your own creation, at least to
some degree. The problem might have more to do with your own refusal to see a
situation in a true light, because it isn't what you wanted or expected. But i
f you could be objective about it - and perhaps consider that someone else mig
ht have a clearer view than you do - then you would see that it isn't all that
problematic, and it might not even be your problem to solve, Taurus. Take a s
tep back and take a fresh look.
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dilemma 困境
refusal 拒绝
in a true light 从真实的观点观察
take a fresh look 重新看待