呣呣~今天,一段关系的转换失败是极有可能发生的。
但你可能会搔著头,并思考究竟有哪个地方出了问题。
最终,可能这当中并没有任何一个特别的地方需要补救,甚至是你认为最有可能的亦如是。
或许你可能会觉得自己在某些特定的关系外看到问题点。
但它也许并不是如你所想的。
先冷静下来,并好好思考究竟哪个步骤出了问题。
你现在有改善这整段关系的潜力。
注:常见的关系好比身分:老师与学生、父母与子女等,白天可能是为人师表,但晚上可能
因进修缘故转换成学生;平常在家可能是父母的角色,但回到娘家或婆家时又转换成子女,
这些身分的转换容易使人迷失,或是因转换而带来不适应。再来可能还有身分地位的转换,
平常工作是上司,但遇到上游公司的负责人时却又得表现的不卑不亢。种种的关系可能会
影响你今天的生活。
这类关系的问题会使你焦虑、紧张,但这于事无补并只会让你看起来相当笨拙。最好的方
法是扮演着自己,把身分重新退回自己身上,应对时只需在意最基本的礼貌、礼节,剩下的
再慢慢调适就好。
Transformation with a failing relationship is very possible today , Taurus.
But you may be scratching your head and wondering which of your relationships
that could possibly be.
After all , there's probably not too many special connections that you would
really like to repair and probably one that you would like to fix the most , but
you may see that particular relationship as being beyond saving.
Maybe it's not.
Take a fresh look at the ways you can fix what went wrong.
Your potential to do so is greatly enhanced now.