You can probably find a lot that is wrong with something a friend or
family member is working on. It may be obvious to you, Scorpio, and in the
interest of helping them, you may have the urge to offer constructive
criticism. But if this person is very sensitive, it might be a better
option to offer constructive encouragement instead. That means you should
focus on what is good, and if that evolves into a conversation about how
what is good can be even better, then you will be a valuable resource for
this person's success.
或许你发现了某个朋友或家人正在做的事出现了很大的问题，对你来说这可能很明显，
天蝎，而你想帮助他们，你也许会有想要提供有建设性的批评的冲动。但是如果这个
人非常敏感的话，也许给予有建设性的鼓励才是比较好的选择。这个意思是你应该著
重在哪些是好的，而如果这样做能让你们有所交流，你们就能讨论怎么做才会更好，
然后你就会成为让这个人成功的重要推手。