It can be very tempting to evaluate people by outward appearances. It is
human nature to make judgements based on what we see. Someone new in your
life may appear very strongly in a certain way. You may have developed
perceptions of this person that are logically based on what you have seen,
and you may have heard things to back up your perception - but you should
consider that could be very - or even completely wrong. Before you jump to
conclusions, give yourself the chance to know this person. You may be
pleasantly surprised.
人很容易从外表评价他人，我们看见了什么就会做什么样的评断，这是天性。某个刚
认识的人可能看起来非常特别，你也许会理智地透过自己所见来评论这个人，你也可
能会听到一些关于他的事，更加佐证了你对他的评论——但是你应该要深思熟虑这样
可能是大错特错的做法，甚至是错到底了。在你草率地下结论之前，给自己机会去了
解这个人，这样或许会带给你惊喜。

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