Libra horoscope for Wednesday Jul 11
You may be trying to push or pressure someone into being more of what you thin
k you want or need, Libra. This may not be intentional. You may just be saying
or doing things unconsciously in an effort to get this person to fit into a c
ertain ideal. But if you are using guilt or any kind of manipulation to change
something about this situation - even subconsciously - then it may come back
to haunt you. You can't change someone. Even when they conform to please you i
t will probably be temporary. You need to recognize any tendency to do this an
d put an end to it.
你也许尝试着要去施压/改变某事件成为你心目中应该要具备的模样，虽然这不是你自愿的
。
你无意识地花费自己心力去矫正到正常点的状态。但，如果你是带有内疚或是任何想弥补
的意图去改变，甚至你的潜意识这样认为，那之后的结果就是反过来伤害你。
你是无法改变的，即使是他们去取悦你那也是短暂的。你需要的是学会观察/判断趋势，什
么该做，什么不该做。
PS, 我觉得重点是: 改变自己应该会比较快