When two people disagree strongly on something, they bring out their best argu
ments - especially Leos. And the more they try to defend their own point of vi
ew, the deeper they dig in. But when it becomes about winning the argument rat
her than learning or sharing ideas, then we fail to see the whole truth. You m
ay now or soon be involved in an argument about a strong point of view. Be ope
n to hearing what the other person has to say, and think it through thoroughly
, Leo. You may learn something quite valuable.
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当两个人在某件事上意见严重相左时，他们通常会提出最好的论据 来捍卫自己的观点。
而他们越是试图捍卫自己的观点，他们就越深入研究，但当一切变成意气之争而不是去探
讨真相时，我们就无法客观地看待这件事。
你现在可能就处于这种情况。 听取对方的意见，并通过彻底的思考， 你可能会学到很
有价值的东西。