You may have built up a lot of resentment towards someone over the years becau
se this person has consistently let you down or disappointed you in various wa
ys. But at the same time, dear Leo, the lessons that you have learned because
of this experience have been valuable. Even if you can't see that yet, time wi
ll prove that these and other issues in your life have helped build your own c
haracter in a positive way. So, instead of feeling resentful - which will only
degrade you and your relationship - be thankful. This is much more productive
.
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多年来，你对某人可能积累产了很多怨恨，因为这个人一直以各种方式让你失望。
但与此同时，你因为这件事而吸取的教训是有价值的。 即使你还没有意识到，但时间会
证明你生活中的这些问题有助于以积极的方式建立自己的人品。
所以，不要感到怨恨 - 这只会拖累你- 要感恩，这样对你来说更好。