When someone knows the difference between right and wrong, and they do somethi
ng that is wrong, we can fault them and perhaps punish them for their actions.
But if someone is unaware of the difference for some reason, blaming them wou
ld be pointless - but teaching them would be valuable. Someone may have done s
omething recently that was foolish or hurtful. You may be tempted to speak out
about it, dear Leo, but if that person doesn't understand your reason for bei
ng upset, help them understand instead.
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当有人知道对与错之间的区别，并且他们做了一些错误的事情时，我们可能惩罚他们。
但是如果有人因为某种原因而没有意识到他们做错事，那么指责他们就没有意义 - 但教
导他们会很有价值。
最近有人可能做了一些愚蠢的事情。 你可能很想说出来，但如果那个人不知道你在生气
啥，请帮助他们理解。