You may be angry about a situation you have gotten involved in, most likely no
t by choice and not because you were at fault for anything. You may be ready t
o charge forward with demands and plans to get yourself out of that mess, but
that might not be the best way to do it. Instead of being angry, just remind y
ourself that you are not in this situation because of your doing, and you are
not responsible for it unless you choose to be. Handle it with charm and logic
, and you will be fine.
你可能对你卷入的情况感到生气，大部分是因为你没有选择权，
而且你并没有错。
你也许准备好提出要求和计画，
但是那也许不是最佳的处理方式。
与其生气，倒不如提醒自己你不是因为你做了什么而陷入这种情况，
除非你选择这样做，否则你不需要为此负责。
用迷人的魅力和逻辑去处理它，你会平安无事的。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。