You may have noticed that someone in your world is in need of help, and it happens to be just the kind of help you are able to supply. You are a generous soul, Gemini, and you would like to reach out and offer this person the assistance they need. However, you may be afraid that if you do, you will be on the hook eternally. You may fear that this person will come to expect assistance, even when you are not able to provide it. But that fear can be alleviated simply by stating your capability and
availability up front. That way, you can be generous without being taken advantage of.
你也许注意到在你的世界里的某个人需要帮助,
当某个人需要帮助而你有能力并且提供援助是亲切的。
你有慷慨的灵魂,双子们,当他需要你的时候,你想要伸出手提供援助给这个人。
然而,你害怕如果你那么做的话,你会永远陷入圈套中。
你会害怕将来这个人期待你的援助,甚至当你都没有能力提供的时候。
但是你的害怕可以用事先陈述你的耐受力跟你的能力。
那样的话,你可以既慷慨解囊又不会被利用(占便宜)。
Ps.如果有误译请指正,谢谢。