Confidence is not something that comes from outside sources. We often turn
to others for inspiration and motivation hoping they will believe in us.
But that is not what validates you, Moonchild. The only true form of
self-esteem is the sense of self-worth that exists within you, and if you
don't have enough of it, you need to look within to cultivate it. You may
be hoping that someone you want to impress will believe in something you
are doing and give you the confidence you need, but confidence is home-
grown. Remember that.
自信心不是来自外在的资源，我们常常向其他人请教灵感和动力，希望他们会相信自
己，可是那都不是让你有灵感和动力的东西。唯一且真实的自尊心型态是存乎己心的
自我价值的感觉，如果你没有足够的自我价值感，那你必须向内寻求与培养。你或许
正在希望可以让某个人对自己印象深刻，希望他会相信你正在做的事，并且给你你所
需要的信心。不过你要记住，信心是从你自己身上产生的。