People who are emotionally healthy respond better to constructive
criticism that is delievered diplomatically than to harsh criticism that
is delievered in a condescending manner. But when someone crosses a line
and treats another in an unkind or disrespectful way, we may feel obliged
to react harshly rather than kindly. If you are feeling the need to
chastise someone now for unkind behavior, Cancer, keep in mind the above.
Reach out with compassion, consideration, and respect, and you will get
the result you desire.
情绪状态健康的人对于他人用圆滑的方式提出建设性的批评，可以用谦和而不过激的
态度接受。但是当某个人做得太过分，用不友善或不尊重的方式对待他人，那我们也
许会觉得有义务要以严苛而非温和的方式回应，巨蟹，记住这些话。带着热情、体贴
与尊重给予他人支持吧，你就会得到你所渴望的结果。