You could find yourself in a heated conflict today that could easily
transform into an argument. But rather than allowing it to boil over into an
argument, which you could wind up eventually regretting, try to steer it
toward being a debate instead. A debate is a fair conversation, where each
side gets to air their thoughts and opinions, and both sides look at the
facts objectively - or at least that's how it should be. Doing this will help
everyone have greater clarity, and it will enable a fair outcome.
今天你能发现你身处一个激烈的冲突之中，而且这个冲突还很容易转化成一个论点。但与
其放着它不管，不如动手收尾免得导致你后悔，试着把它引导成辩论吧。辩论是一种公平
的谈话，各方都可以表达自己的想法与意见，并且能客观地看着事实 - 大概吧。这样做
的话能够让每个人对事情有更清晰的见解，而且还能有个公平的结论。