You may think you are going to need a secret decoder ring to figure out what s
omeone is trying to say to you . Maybe they are giving you mixed messages . Ma
ybe they are leaving part of the facts out . Maybe they are not telling the tr
uth about how they feel .
But whether it is , Aquarius , you can sense that something is not right and t
hat clarity is elusive . But guessing is not going to help , and pretending yo
u understand is not going to help either . Just be candid . Express that you a
re not getting the message .
Then the ball is in their court .
你可能会认为你将需要一个秘密的解锁环，
用以弄清楚某人想对你说什么。
( 我觉得我蛮需要的 ,
听不懂人话就是在说我这种 XD )
或许他们给了你一些混杂的讯息。
又或许他们遗漏了一部分事实。
又或许他们没有说出他们真实的感受。
但是无论是或不是 , 水瓶座 ,
你都可以感觉到这些事情的不对劲，
但很清楚的是这事情很难以捉摸。
但是猜测是不会有所帮助的，
然后装懂也一样没有帮助。
坦率一点 , 直接表明自己不懂。
然后现在这轮由对方发球了。
(科普一下:Then the ball is in their court . 这个词来自网球，意思是轮到谁发球了
)
短评:
有点久没有翻了 ^_^”
常常好像以为掌握发球局了,
先是40-0的攻势,
但对方总能慢慢打到deuce ,
然后最后我还是会输掉这一盘 ,
也许是策略上的错误,或者是能力上的不足
对方THE试探?
总之 ,如果同样的方法一直行不通,
那是否该想想要换个对策 ?