不晓得是我年纪大了所以跟不上时代,
还是因为欧洲年轻人真的远比亚洲年轻人更开放,
亦或因为我的法籍女性朋友在法国其实是特例中的特例?
三月中是她生日,但因为她人现在在法国,
所以我只打算送个电玩游戏下载码给她,没打算浪费那个钱买机票跑去凑热闹。
最近才偶然得知她的某位男性朋友揪了另外四个才二十几岁的年轻小伙子,
准备在她生日的当天晚上一起五男大战一女来庆祝生日。
我开玩笑地问她说,他们会不会帮妳准备蛋糕啊?
她说不知道,而我心里则是想说“根本不需要,因为妳她妈的就是那个蛋糕啊!”
身为斯拉夫母亲和北欧父亲的混血,A罩杯的她年轻时的家庭成长背景不怎么顺遂,
虽然身材很好却从没交过男朋友。因为和主题无关我就不多加叙述了。
但这故事让我联想到说,台湾那些不学无术的小流氓可以有上不完的便宜台妹,
有一部份是因为她们主要来自于不完整的家庭,自幼价值观扭曲,
因而沉迷于那种被人需要、被人爱的感觉。
然而就像我另外一位英国女性友人对这件事情所下的注解:
“It's not a very good life. Maybe when she's older she will feel more mature
and stop it. Because as much as we hate to admit it, but life is mostly what
people around you think on you. If everyone thinks she's a slut or something,
will she ever find a partner being happy and have a family? She's young and
free, and can do whatever she wants, but it's basic human nature to want
something different. Sex all the time will just get boring if it's random
people. Soon she will want someone she truly loves.”
简单来说就是约砲约到一定程度就会腻,开始羡慕那种被人真心爱着的感觉所以上岸,
因此会有一堆台女玩腻了就跑到新竹来靠岸。
请问各位身边有很多这种例子吗?还是其实根本不常见?