You are not one to judge, Virgo. You are someone who truly and deeply
appreciates a person's uniqueness. So why does a certain person seem to get
to you? You may be feeling harsh toward yourself because you believe you are
judging someone based on something that is different about them, but that may
not be what's bugging you. Could it be that you are sensing something that
clashes with your values, or maybe there is a history between you that is
causing you to feel defensive? You are entitled to feel what you naturally
feel. As long as you understand it, and it's valid, don't beat yourself up
over it.

好

不管怎样都好纠结

处女座善于用自己的价值观衡量对错，却往往忽视别人在真实情境下的决定往往处女座的默认立场更因时置宜。处女座的我在处女座好为人师的母亲的淫威下不得不妥协之写照。然后批判别人和聊八卦揭人隐微，依她的说法叫做“聊家常”。若我临时出小状况，让她无法应变就叫做找她麻烦，等自己处理完善跟她云淡风轻的提，她又暴怒没有征询她让她主导，这就是处女座。我自己花钱修自己的车为什么要经过她同意指定地点啊！理由就是最恶烂的“为你好!”又不是她的财产。出一张78贫嘴，我的车会及时修好吗？上次我掏腰包替她修12年老爷车也一样跳针狂骂。身为处女座的自己每天都在提醒自己绝对不要自以为替人着想。

顾好自己就很棒，不用替别人做太多然后累死自己。(认真)