最近可能有人对你不好,阿牛。与其用防御性的膝跳反应来应对,仔细想想,你需要分析
他们为什么会有这样的行为。问问自己这是否并不常见,以及为什么他们会出现这样的状
况。如果你在分析中加入同情心,就可能会发现你被对待的方式来自于恐惧或压力。它可
能没有反映出那个人对你的真实感受。无论如何,都要以善意回应。
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Someone may have treated you badly recently, Taurus. But rather than a knee-je
rk reaction that is mostly defensive, if you think about it, you need to analy
ze why they behaved in such a way. Ask yourself if this is uncommon, and what
reasons might have caused the behavior. If you add compassion to your analysis
, you may just find that the way you were treated came from a place of fear or
stress. It may not have reflected how that person truly feels about you. Be k
ind in return, no matter what.
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