我们都知道有些人在情感上过于依赖。不论他们是朋友或家人，这些人有的直接将你的能
量吸走的倾向。但要记住一件事，阿牛，或许他们不喜欢这么做，这些人的需求可能来自
于他们缺乏对自己的自信，还有他们的自卑感。与其只是容忍这些碰巧出现在你生活中的
人，不如努力培养他们的自尊心。这是种对关系的投资，对你来说可能也是非常有帮助的
。
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We all know someone who is emotionally needy. Whether they are friends or fami
ly members, they tend to have a knack for sucking the energy right out of you.
But keep in mind, Taurus, that they may not like being that way, and their ne
ediness probably comes from a lack of confidence in who and what they are, and
a feeling of inferiority. Instead of just tolerating someone like this who ha
ppens to be in your life, work on building them up and boosting their self-est
eem. It's an investment in a relationship that could be very instrumental to y
ou, too.
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emotionally needy 在感情上过于依赖
tend to 有…倾向、易于、导致
knack 诀窍、技巧
inferiority 自卑、劣势、低等、
tolerate 忍受、容许、宽恕
instrumental 有帮助的、乐器