你或许会认为要让一段个人关系重回正轨需要很深度的努力。也许你们的误解和困难的互
动可以追溯到相当久之前，阿牛。但你或许会发现，尤其在这周，如果你开始在一个更轻
松、友好且随和的层面与对方接触，它将会用一种更柔和的方式对你打开沟通的管道。
换句话说，与其把这个问题当作一个大问题，不如把他们带来玩桌游或打牌，也可以出去
喝杯咖啡，聊些无伤大雅、快乐的事。你懂的，没有对冲突的恐惧，就不会有人处在防备
状态。
你最近因为工作或某种合作关系而受委屈，或许会导致你处在一个”打或跑”的模式，你
也可能会想逃离这一切，但这种感觉可能是基于内心累积的压力和需要释放它的需求。
暂时往后退一步，只考虑你们的关系中比较愉快的那部分，可能会有帮助，这将会为你带
来免于担忧的自由，也会使你的观点更加柔软。
与金钱或法律事务的好消息可能会在周末前到来。
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Weekly horoscope for 02/07-02/13
You may think that getting a personal relationship back on track will require
a lot of deep, hard work. Perhaps the misunderstandings and difficult interact
ions go back a long way, Taurus. But you may find - especially this week - tha
t if you start to engage the other party on a lighter, friendlier, more casual
level, it will open up the lines of communications in a softer way. In other
words, rather than addressing the issue as a big problem, try just relating on
e person to the other. Play a board game or card game. Go out for a coffee and
chat about harmless, happy things. You get the idea. Without the fear of a co
nfrontation, no one will be on the defensive. Recent aggravation with work or
with a partnership of some kind might be causing you to lock into a "fight or
flight" mode. You may want to just run away from it all. But this feeling is p
robably based on the sense of stress building up inside and a need to release
it. It may help to just back off a bit and to think only about the more pleasa
nt aspects of your relationship for a while. That will give you the freedom fr
om worry, and may soften your outlook. Good news related to money or a legal m
atter may come before the weekend.
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本周单字
engage 接触
confrontation 对抗；冲突
aggravation 委屈；恼怒
pleasant 愉快；友好
outlook 观点；