越是亲近的人,越有可能是伤害我们的人。
因为他们知道我们的弱点、短处,也因此容易伤害最深处的部分。
若你最近因容忍某个人许久,而想找机会与他好好沟通、商量,请注意自己的行为与语气,
别用太过针对性或是情绪勒索的言语。
善待他人总是会得到好的回馈,特别是这个人在你心中分外重要,呣呣~
注:有时越是亲密的人,越难以直接沟通,因为某些事情可能会伤害到对方。但如果对方的
行为让你觉得不得不纠正时,请记得别用情绪勒索性的词汇,直白的告诉对方“这件事”与
我们的关系是两件事,并不会因为它而影响我们之间的感情。
纠正是让双方都变得更好,而非隐忍而彼此沉沦。
The people that we are the closest to are the ones who have the potential to
hurt us the most.
They understand our weaknesses , our frailties , and they know to push our buttons.
If you delve into an argument that has been simmering between you and a loved one
anytime soon , be careful not to use any of those powers you have that come from
your familiarity with this person.
Being kind always reaps the greatest rewards , especially with someone you already
care about , Taurus.