你可能有个重要问题需要讨论，但对方的性格相当强势、不友善以至于你很难与对方沟通。
但有时候人们之所以会有这样的行为，是出自于他们自我保护的意识，害怕被占便宜。
若你没有这种意图，那么可以多采取友善的态度，降低对方敌意，让彼此合作的更愉快。
试试看吧~
注1:比起社交，有些时候宁可自己想办法解决，也不想要寻求他人帮助，但往往事情总是会
遇到不得不的情况。有时并非对方难相处，而是我们自己默认“对方难相处”，这是满常
见的事情。然凡事还是得自己亲身体验才能断定，与这类人共事时，不须思考太多自己的
行为，诸如:是否冒犯对方、有没有说错话、这样做会不会惹对方生气...等，一切以沟通
时的规则进行，别超出规则外则多半会有好的结果。
注2:但如果可以还是宁可自己来就是...
You may have an important matter to discuss with someone who appears to be very
gruff and tough and difficult to deal with.
But sometimes a person will put on a show of being gruff and tough and difficult
to deal with when they are afraid of being taken advantage of.
Since that is not your plan , approaching this person in an open , friendly way
could dispel any fears and make your exchange for more pleasant.
Give it a try.