当你想确认一段重要关系是好是坏时，对此做评估比较是很常态的做法。
你可能已经用了某种方式去做评估，而得到的结果是好坏参半。
然而，这并不是一个经营关系的绝佳方法。
若你想要增进与对方的关系，那么你得看得更远一些。
你需要的是以诚相待，而非深思熟虑。
对开心的事情大方坦诚，同时对引你不快的事情加以排除。
找寻一道合适的应对之道可以大大改善你与他人之间的关系，呣呣～
注：与人相处时往往会害怕碰触到对方地雷，因此变得谨言慎行，举凡说话内容、话题尺度、甚至是语气音调等，讲话犹如一场战争，一段为时不长的对话里填塞了多少攻防。
但这样一来便可得到对方信任吗？
有时候与其谨慎，不如诚实面对自己的心情与感受，在与他人沟通的同时，其实也是在跟自己沟通。
When you look at a relationship very closely and examine the good and the bad the connection brings to your life, it's a very analytical way to assess it. That may be something you are doing now as you evaluate a bond you have with someone that has been up and down. But that isn't the best way to study a relationship. If you want it to be better, you have to look at the big picture. You have to feel it more than analyze it. Celebrate what makes you feel happy, and address what makes you feel stressed or
upset. Finding ways to adapt to the emotional reaction can make a positive difference, Taurus.