“主动献身博取同情”与“为某些事自愿献身进而获取同情”这两件事在本质上有着大大的
不同。
这几天,某些人借由行善来获取媒体的注意及社会大众的表扬。
然,这种行为会将行善的初衷给完全末灭掉。
某个你认识的人可能做过类似的事情:利用善行来获取某些声浪,而你早早便发现了这件
事。
然而,呣呣~不能因此抗拒去做某个你想完成的事情。
让他们去协助也是默默行善的一种,而这也会是个优秀的案例。
注:“行善不欲人知”是道德上的最高标准,然并非每个人都能如此。有道德洁癖的人可能
会因此鄙视这类“行善欲人知”的行为,认为这会将善行的初衷给抹灭掉。但若此善行必
为人知,是否你会因此退却呢?
这得回归到行善的初衷来谈,“行善”本质是帮助他人,这是无庸置疑的事情。无论是上
述“欲人知”或“不欲人知”,只要有确实帮助到需要的人,那么都算是不违背初衷。
因此,别害怕帮了他人被表扬而抗拒这件事,这是因噎废食呀~
This is a big difference between taking on a burden for the good that will come
from it rather than being a martyr to attract sympathy.
These days , we see many prople do a good deed then post their accomplishment to
social media for attention and praise.
Somehow , that takes the beauty out of it.
Someone you know may be of the latter type - doing good deeds to gain favor -
and you spotted this pretty early.
However , Taurus , this does not necessarily exclude them from some effort you
may want to initiate.
Allowing them to help can be your silent good deed - and it may also be an
excellent example.