某些人在你的生活中可能带给妳许多争执、吵闹甚至是怨怼。
因为你已经受够了这些事,呣呣~打从这个人引起你的情绪开始,你便尽可能的独断行事。
然而,这个人可能最近几天会有些好转,或控制她们的情绪。
若是如此,你会因此而趁这个机会,将先前受到的对待跟他们如实告知吗?
若能如此就再好不过了。
注:偶尔沟通的症结点就在于此:是趁着他人改变时透漏自己的感受呢?或是为了面子而隐瞒
这件事,并安慰自己“反正他已经改变了”?
多数情况下,我们会选择后者。但事实上,前者才是更有助于巩固双方交情的方法。至于
尺度上的拿捏则端看每个人与该对象能掌握的程度,但无论如何,都远远比自己闷在心里
自欺欺人来的好上许多。
Someone in your life has caused you a lot strife , anger , and perhaps resentment.
Because you became so fed up with this , Taurus , you probably spoke your mind
assertively since this person can really bring out the raging bull in you.
However , this person may have turned a corner in recent days , or they may soon
improve their behavior.
If so , will you be as vocal and demonstrative about the positive changes as
you were about what upset you before?
Hopefully , you will consider this.