你可能已经尽可能的转移自己的注意力,让自己不要过度在意一件你不想处理的事情上。
但问题并不会因此获得解决,它们总或有似无的在你身边提醒你,暗示你必须去解决这个
问题。
不断地拖延只是延长你解决的时间罢了。
即便你下定决心放置它、不处理这个问题,呣呣~它依然会让你备受煎熬。
正视它,并且好好的解决才是正道。
注1:逃避有用,但不是一直都是。选择逃避是为了获得喘息的空间,但不代表可以忽视、
遗弃它,在喘口气之后不妨再次思考如何面对吧! 休息时尽全力休息,休息过后再好好盘
算,切莫在休息时思考,思考时休息。
注2:今天是自己的生日,也很庆幸自己可以浑浑噩噩的来到这天。过去的自己只要逢九尾
数的年纪就会过得非常不愉快,过了今天以后,希望是个全新的开始。
You may be doing your best to distract yourself and divert your energy away
from a problem that you don't want to deal with.
But all of the distractions can't take away that nagging feeling that keeps
reminding you that you have to take care of the issue.
Putting this off will only lengthen the time you have to deal with it.
Because even though you are not deal with it directly by resolving it , Taurus,
you are suffering the pangs of worry.
Face it and move on with a good feeling of completion istead.