作为一个极具亲和力的人是你的优点,呣呣~但同时也会是你的缺点。
起初,那些你所信赖的对象会因为你的能力与实力,进而倚靠你、委托你。
但当你经常同意帮忙后,他人的委托常常会优先于自己份内的事情,而这些事情总会让你
感到身心俱疲。
连带影响的,是当他人有求于你时会认为这是理所当然的。
试着学习如何拒绝会是往后日子的一项重要课题。
注:试着多学习如何拒绝他人,会让自己好过些。有时候我们常将“拒绝”与“交恶”划
上等号,因此往往以“同意”代替“拒绝”。但事实上,巧妙地回绝反而会让他人觉得
你是一个有自我风格的人,而不只是“好人”。
Being a people person is one of your virtues , Taurus , but it is also one of
your vices.
Firstly , those who love you know how wonderful it can be to have someone like
you to rely on.
But when you constantly say yes , always prioritizing others over yourself , it
can cause a lot of wear and tear on you .
It can also increase the odds of being taken for granted.
Learning to say no would be a valuable skill to develop.