你可能觉得某些在你身旁的人无论如何都不能了解你。
无论你多么频繁或激烈的辩解,他们就是不懂。
呣呣~若你对自己多诚实一点,或许也能直接承认自己就是无法得到他认同。
这种沟通的裂缝与缺乏理解的对话往往会导致冲突。
但建立起对话的桥梁是可能的。
若你能先冷静的靠近对方,将内在的思绪先整顿一番,那么你可以架起良好的沟通管道。
注1:这篇的沟通并非一味委曲求全,而是建立在自己不被压迫的前提下再进行。委屈自己并非沟通。
注2:这几天已经快遗忘的伤口又突然被狠狠揭起,又回到那个随时可以说再见的自己,谢谢大家关心。
You may feel that there is someone in your world who just doesn't get you. No matter how often or how intensely you try to explain yourself, this person does not understand. And if you are honest with yourself, Taurus, you could probably admit that you may not quite get that other person either. This lack of understanding and the communication gap may sometimes lead to conflict. But a better understanding is possible. If you can approach each other from a calm, cool place of inner peace, you can develop
a better relationship.