你最近可能尝试帮他人解决问题。
或许，你已经看透了这个问题既有的挑战与难题点。
但呣呣~即便你提供了所有的帮助，但可能事与愿违。
事实上，不去参与寻找问题的解答甚至会更好。
因为他人的成见会导致看不清问题点，甚至自始至终都不把它当成问题。
你会如此认为进而产生责任感。
但如果它并无恶化－－或是到最后都没恶化的迹象－－那有什么必须修正的吗?
有时候，你必须承认不去帮某些人处理麻烦事会是较为明智的选择。
注:这篇谈到的比较像是“无助感”，有时候即便自己倾全力帮忙，但他人听不进去
就是听不进去，这时不妨将这件事看成他个人的常态－－至少自己会好过点。
题外话:....在其他版发文被认出来好害羞 =艸=
You may be trying to help someone out with a problem.
You may see the consequences that could develop and the challenges that
are inherent in this problem.
But for all the help you have offered , Taurus , the one you hope to help
doesn't seem to be grateful.
In fact , they may not even be participating in finding the solution.
That may be because that individual does not see the problem as a problem
at all.
That may just be your perspective.
But if it isn't broken