某些人对于一些要求、或是你曾说过的事情,其反应可能会让你猝不及防,甚至吓一跳。
呣呣~你可能不知道怎么去重新唤起他们,因此你会给自己时间去思考下一步该怎么做。
但在你唤起这些人之前,你需要弄清楚为什么,这甚至比下一步的方向还重要。
因为这很可能有更深层的原因导致,并且在短时间内改变。
在你决定下一步之前,先尝试彻底了解它们的背景关系。
注1:某些人的反应可能超乎你预期,甚至违背你的期待。因此,在尝试“导正”他们以前
先将背后的利益或动机厘清,对接下来的计画会比较方便。
注2:很感谢大家听我碎念抱怨(苦笑),虽然推文的系统我还没习惯QQ,若可以的话寄信陪
跟我聊天我也会很开心。
Someone's unusual response to a resquest or to something you said may have
taken you aback and caught you off guard.
You may not konw how to replay , so give yourself some time to think about it,
Taurus.
But before you replay to this person's reaction or response , you need to
figure out why , rather than coming up with an answer.
There may be some deeper reason for what transpired , and things could change
quickly.
Try to understand the backstory before you take the next step.