你最近可能因为过去所作的某个决定被某些人提及或暗示,进而架起你的防御心。
但其实你是在做任何决定前都会审慎思考的牛,呣呣,没有一件事是例外的。
理所当然地,你无须架起你的防备心,因为一切可能只是庸人自扰。
将试图解释的心态放一旁,试着对自己所作的决定有信心,并相信它会成功。
别让他人的想法箝制你的信心。
注: 如果你对自己够自信,那就无须多虑;若没自信,不是你的选择有问题,而是你对自己信心不够。
You may be on the defensive because of something someone has said or implied about a choice you have made. You are someone who thinks important choices and decisions through very carefully before you reach your conclusions, Taurus, and this decision was probably no exception. There is no reason to feel defensive because there is nothing for you to defend. Instead of taking that kind of stance, use that mindset to bolster your belief and validate your position. Don't let anyone else's opinion get to you.