你试着说服、哄骗甚至威胁某人同意你
但你真的想要的是真正的理解、双方面的共识
如果你强迫别人去理解你的想法
这只会是暂时的状态
但如果让这个人自己去了解你是更好的
提供事实 表达你的想法
然后给这个人一些时间去消化
你们将有机会能意见一致
You can try to convince, cajole, or even threaten someone into agreeing with y
ou, Taurus, but what you really want is genuine understanding and a mutual agr
eement. If you have to force someone to see your side of things, it might be a
temporary fix, but if that person comes to an understanding on their own it w
ill be much better. Present the facts. Express how you feel about the elements
of the situation. And then give that person time to absorb it all. Chances ar
e you will wind up seeing eye to eye.