You cannot right a wrong that was done against you a long time ago, though you have probably fantasized about it a lot. Holding a grudge, however, allows the person who wronged you to live rent-free in your mind. You can make up for whatever you lost, if you haven't already done so, but you cannot give yourself back the time you have wasted thinking about it. Let go of an old injustice. To concinue thinking about it would truly be unjust. Your time is better spend on more worthy pursuits.
牛牛们我们无法去更改一个以前别人对我们的误解，我们可能常幻想如果当年没被误解会有多好。但是如果一直让这个芥蒂存在我们心中就就是让当年误解我们的那个人有机会寄生在我们脑海里。如果我们没有找回我们所失去的我们还是可以尽力去找回，但是我们所浪费在上面的时间却早已流失。放手让他去吧。如果我们继续想下去才是真正的不公平。我们的时间应该花在更有意义的地方。