Someone close to you - a friend, a family member, or even a spouse - may
be giving you a really hard time about a choice you want to make. They may
be arguing with you, criticizing you, and pleading with you to make a
different choice. Although this might be quite annoying, you have to
consider the reasons for it. At the foundation of all this "nagging," you
will find someone who cares deeply about you and about what you do. If you
see their actions through that lens, you will appreciate it much more, and
you will also be more open to hearing words of wisdom.
有个跟你很亲近的人—朋友、家人或者甚至是配偶—也许会让你难以做出你想做的选
择。他可能会跟你争辩、批评你、然后恳求你做出不同的选择。尽管这或许会让你相
当烦恼，可是你还是必须认真思考原因。在这些让你“不得安宁”的基础之上，你将
会发现某个人是真的很在乎你，也很在乎你所做的事。如果你透过镜头检视他的行为，
那你将会更加感谢对方，而你也将会更愿意敞开心胸来倾听有智慧的言词。

谢谢