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kl25082 (è²)
2025-02-15 03:10:15Someone may be implying that you always get a bit defensive when a certain
topic comes up in conversation - perhaps about a relationship. If you
think about it, dear Scorpio, you may discover that it's true. But why?
Could it be that you have some unresolved guilt over the way a situation
developed? You don't want to accept the blame, but then again, if you do,
you can then find a way to make the situation better. Confront those
feelings you have - including the defensiveness - and you will find a way
to turn things around.
有人也许会暗示你总是在聊到某个特定的话题的时候,防御心会变得有点重—或许是
跟伴侣关系有关的议题。如果你仔细思考看看,亲爱的天蝎,你可能会发现这是真的。
但为什么会这样呢?是不是因为你对某个发展至今的情况,有着悬而未决的愧疚感?
你不想接受他人对你这样批评,可是如果你接受了,你就可以找出方法改善这个情况。
正视自己的那些感受—包括防备心—然后你将会想出办法来扭转局面。