Focusing on what you have in common with someone today - rather than on
how diverse your opinions are - will be the key to getting along with that
person. You can turn a situation around now if you are open-minded, if you
share your deepest thoughts and feelings about a complex matter, and if
you concentrate on the many things that you do have in common. By engaging
more in your shared interests, you will develop a connection that can
transcend problems like this.
今天要专注在你跟某人的共通点上—而不是你们的意见有多么迥异—这是跟那个人相
处的关键。如果你保持开放的心胸，如果你分享你对某件复杂的事情的最深层想法和
感受，如果你专注在你们的诸多共通点上，那你现在就可以转变某个局势。借由更加
专注于你们共有的兴趣，你将会发展出可以超越困难的情感关系。