If there is someone that you don't usually get along with but you discover
that you have a mutual passion for a certain cause or opinion, then your
differences may melt away, and you might get along quite well - for a
little while at least. If you are enduring conflict with someone now, you
may wish that things could be better. Try to imagine how it would be if
you were both on the same page with a passion of yours, and that can help
you to recognize that some of your hostility or incompatibility with that
person isn't all that important. Finding the good in someone can help to
dismiss less-desirable characteristics.
如果有一个不常相处的人，可是你发现你们对某件事或想法有共同的热情，那么你们
的差异也许就会消失，而你们可能会相处得很好——至少一阵子。如果你现在正在经
历跟某个人的冲突，那你或许会希望事情会好转，试着想像如果你们都在思考共同的
兴趣，那会是什么模样？这会帮助你认清自己对那个人的敌意跟势不两立一点也不重
要，找出某个人的优点有助于除去比较不讨喜的人格特质。