A Hawaiian shirt might be a fun thing to wear for a day on the boardwalk
or for a backyard barbecue. It is colorful, lighthearted, and carefree.
But you would not wear such a shirt for a business meeting. Needless to
say, our attitudes are much like our attire in that way. A current
situation is not colorful, lighthearted, or carefree to a certain person
in your life - even if you find it so. You may be in a playful mood today,
but you need to shift gears for a serious conversation.
在海边的木板路上散步或是在后院烤肉的时候穿夏威夷衬衫也许很逗趣，这是色彩缤
纷、轻松愉快又无忧无虑的。可是你不会在工作开会的时候穿这种衬衫，不需要多说，
衣着就会突显出我们的态度。最近你生命中跟某个人的某个状况让你没办法快乐和无
忧无虑——就算你想要也没办法。你今天可能心情很好，想开开玩笑，但是你必须为
了一段严肃的对话而改变方式。