You and a friend may have polar opposite opinions on a certain matter. But
being at odds with each other in this way does not mean that a
conversation has to turn into a war, which could eventually lead to the
end of your relationship. How foolish would that be? Very foolish! So, be
gentle in how you engage over a certain touchy topic. Be generous. Listen.
And respond with grace and dignity - and you can't go wrong.
你和某个朋友对某件事的意见或许会天差地远，可是双方意见不一致不代表对话会转
变成战争，而这终将会导致友谊画上句点。这样做有多愚蠢呢？非常愚蠢！所以对于
如何处理特定的敏感议题，你要保持温和、宽宏大量的心态，倾听对方，并且用风度
与沉稳的态度回应─这样你就不会出错了。