You may see yourself as an understanding person. You may believe that you
have an open heart and an open mind. You may think that you make yourself
easy to talk to. Even so, someone is not approaching you with a problem
you know they need to discuss. This could be because of an opinion you
have expressed some time ago. Or, it may be that your own stress is making
you seem unapproachable. But if you want to help, reach out. It's likely
the other party will be receptive.
你可能会认为自己是善于理解的人，也或许会相信自己拥有开明的心智与脑袋，你也
许会认为你把自己营造成容易沟通的人。即便如此，某个人不会找你讨论他的问题，
但是你知道他需要协助。这或许是因为你之前表达的意见，也或许是你给自己的压力
让你变得似乎不太好亲近。可是如果你想帮忙，那就主动伸出援手，对方很可能会接
受你的。