You may have been put in charge - officially or otherwise - of managing a
difficult situation. But the thing that may be most difficult is the
person you have to deal with. This individual may not be easy to get along
with, and your hands may be tied as you search for a solution. You can't
make someone become agreeable. You can't force this person to do anything
they don't want to do. But you can do everything you are capable of on
your own and seek out other assistance. Upon taking the power out of this
person's hands, you may find they come around with better behavior.
你可能被委托—不管是正式或其他方式—处理某个棘手的状况，但是最麻烦的其实是
人，这个人也许不好相处，导致你可能束手无策。你没办法要求别人同意你，也不能
逼迫这个人做他不想做的事，但是你可以尽你所能地寻求协助。当你夺走他的自主权
的时候，或许你就会发现对方表现得更好了。