There may be a few pangs of jealousy when a new friend shows some interest
in a mutual acquaintance or in a friend who is yours alone. Even if this
is a platonic relationship, Scorpio, it is so close and special already
that you covet this person for yourself, wanting them to be available
during the rare moments when you have time to socialize. But as the old
poster says, "If you love something let it go; if it comes back to you it
is yours, and if it doesn't, it never was." These are wise words to live
by as clinging too tightly to anything creates friction and frustration,
and you should be above that. Chances are that this other person could
enhance your connection in a good way. Find time this week for a friend or
family member who may be showing signs of melancholy. This person is not
the needy type and may have trouble coming to anyone when in need of help.
They may only need a pat on the back and emotional support, and that's
easy to give - and it could make a tremendous difference in this person's
life right now. A trip to the movies or some other form of entertainment
outing may be in store later in the week when you get tired of staring at
the four walls. Make a point to get out and do something - anything that
will allow you a few hours of carefree enjoyment because you need and
deserve that.
当某个新朋友对共同朋友或你的朋友有兴趣,你可能会觉得妒火中烧,就算这是柏拉
图式的情感,天蝎,那个人跟你很亲近,对你来说很特别,所以你想为自己私藏那个
人,当你难得有空社交的时候,你想要他专属于你。但是就像老旧的海报上所写的那
段话:“如果你真心喜爱某个人事物,那就放手让他走,如果他回到你身边,那他就
是你的。如果他没回来,那他便未曾属于你。”这是一段充满智慧的言词,因为这跟
任何造成争执与挫折的人事物有关,而你应该体会过了。你现在就有这样子的机会:
而那个人可以为你的人际关系带来好的影响。
本周找时间跟朋友或家人聚一聚,他们可能过得不太开心,他们平时不是喜欢讨拍拍
的人,也不太愿意求助他人。他们也许只是需要你拍拍他们的背,在情感上支持他们,
如此而已——这很容易做到。你的一点点支持,在此时此刻会为他们的人生带来巨大
的转变。
周三或周四之后,当你工作累了,就去看场电影吧,或是参加其他室外的娱乐活动。
记住,重点是出门走走、做点事——任何事都好,只要能让你有几个小时的快乐和无
忧无虑就好,因为你需要,因为你值得。