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kl25082 (è²)
2018-05-20 22:53:10Someone may be revealing their "dirty laundry" to you, Scorpio. They may
be sharing information that you think of as too personal given the level
of your relationship. Maybe you don't feel comfortable listening, though,
because you are afraid that you will have to also share something personal
in this exchange. But that's totally up to you. If this person is seeking
your help or guidance, and you want to give it, you are under no
obligation to also share your personal stuff, and you certainly don't need
to feel pressured to do so. Help if you wish, but draw the line if you
don't want a mutual exchange.
或许有人正在揭露自己肮脏的那一面给你看,天蝎。他可能把你觉得太私人的事情讲
给你听,你听了也许会觉得不太舒服,因为你担心你也必须把私人的事情讲给对方听,
作为交换。但是那完全取决于你,如果这个人正在寻求你的协助或指引,而且你想要
帮忙,那么你其实没有义务讲自己私人的事情,你也完全不需要觉得这样做会让自己
有压力。如果你想帮忙的话就帮,但是如果你不想要等价交换,务必要说清楚,划清
界线。