If you choose not to share what you are thinking and feeling with someone
who is demanding a conversation, they may accuse you of hiding something.
But you have been there and done that already, Scorpio, and you are
growing tired of the conversations that seem to go nowhere. But silence
won't get you anywhere either. What you need to do is to create a
framework in which to talk about this matter. It must be mutually agreed
upon, and you must both have your chance to speak up. Both sides speaking
up - and listening - will be critical to a happy resolution.
如果你不跟那个需要沟通的人说出你的想法和感受,他们可能会指责你在隐瞒,但是
其实你一向如此,天蝎,而你越来越厌倦了这种看似没有结论的对话。不过沉默也不
会对你有好处,你需要的是提出一个架构来讨论这整件事,双方都必须取得共识,而
你也必须要有机会说出自己的想法。双方都要说出自己的想法—以及倾听—这样做才
实际,并且引导你们想出让彼此都高兴的解决方法。